Piano Recitals

8 06 2008

Yesterday was the final piano recital for our kids in Georgia.  They’ve had a good run, with a good instructor.  We went through a couple of bad instructors to get to Dustin – it’ll be hard to find a new one with as much “connection” to the kids (he was really broken up that we were moving). 

Piano has been such a great thing for the kids.  It’s so wonderful to see their progress.  When we were at the recital, I watched about a 7 year-old kid climb on to the stool and play his “Yankee Doodle” for mom, dad, and the grandparents.  It reminded me so much of Kendall and his first recital – and now he’s the older kid, playing at the end of the recital, providing that “goal” for all of the little kids…   They’re both doing so well at it – we have folks at every recital come up to the kids and congratulate them on their talent, and on their presence.  Both of them exude this confident, self-assured attitude while sitting at the bench.  In confidence, Kendall told me he was nervous – but I assured him that he was the only one who could tell he wasn’t thoroughly overjoyed to be in front of all those people…  He felt better.  I could also see that Kiana was taking so much from the overall situation – she knows nothing different from “just doing it” – I hope that balances, even slightly, all of the coming teenage angst and awkwardness of a girl’s early teen years.

So good to watch them.  I hope that music remains a part of their lives.





Kids and Cell Phones

31 05 2008

Now both kids have a cell phone.  Kendall has had one for about a year, and I have to say it’s come in quite handy.  He’s done a great job of managing the use of his phone, and controlling the urge to use the phone inappropriately (whether time of day or types of downloads).  We got Kiana a cell phone this week, and we gave it to her last night, as a part of the end-of-school-year celebration. 

We got her a cell phone for a couple of reasons.  Primarily, when we move to Wimberley at the end of the month, we’re going to cut the cord – we’re not getting a land line.  So – we’re reasoning (rationalizing?) that all four of us need a cell phone, to remain accessible.   Secondarily, we want her to feel like part of this digital family.  We noticed that spend a lot of time engaged in digital pursuits, and although Kiana has an iPod for communication, and a Nintendo DS for gaming, she isn’t able to take part in the messaging and phoning that we all do amongst each other.

We “solved” that with a new Blackberry Pearl.  It’ just like Mom’s phone, it has a keyboard for all of the texting she’ll do, it’s small enough for a little purse or pocket, it’s a candybar so there are no hinges or sliders to break, and we’ve found the Blackberry to be a little workhorse and not prone to easy breakage if dropped.  Kiana absolutely loves it.  She’s still figuring out the functionality, and because both Mom and Dad are BB users, she’s got lots of questions and is intent on getting the right answers.  

We know this isn’t something we would have done this summer, had we not been moving.  We’re a little early on the whole kids and cell phones thing, with our 11 year-old.  That said – we think we’ve covered all of the appropriate parenting bases – but I’m sure there are some yet uncovered.  We had the conversation about appropriate usage, we subscribe to the unlimited family plan with texting, we’ve put on the parental controls feature, and we’re monitoring the usage.  I’ll be watching closely – hope this goes well… 

Our kids didn’t get them *this* early…








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