This morning, I had a set of meetings with the Managing Director on whose team I work. Following those meetings, we went to a nice restaurant and had lunch. I had a set of topics, he had a set of topics, and we got down to ticking through the agenda. Somewhere between finishing our trout and a cup of coffee, and interesting thing happened. We both realized that we were having one of the best conversations we’ve had since we started working together. We were on track and synchronous on most, if not all, of the items on our respective agendas, we had general agreement on the strategy for the account, and we were saying the same things about the progress my team has been making.
I know that might not sound like a huge accomplishment, but we haven’t been working directly together for very long, and we’re playing on a rather huge field – so mutual agreement is a wonderful thing. Further, my “aha” moment came when I acknowledged the mutual respect we have for one another, and what that means for our ability to work independently, secure in the knowledge that we’re pursuing complimentary goals that support one another’s objectives.
The best part of the conversation came when we both stopped working from our agenda, and just talked. The outline was good, to frame the conversation, but when we both “just talked”, we got the most out of the conversation. Often, in dealing with customers, colleagues, and employees, find myself talking to a purpose, rather than just talking. I appreciate so much those times when I can just talk. I think I’ll try to recognize and appreciate those times, when they’re happening.
Today was a good day.












