Countdown

14 06 2008

Move day is fast approaching.  Packers are here on the 25th, movers here on the 26th, and they promise to deliver to the temporary residence in Wimberley between the 30th and the 3rd.  That gives us about 12 days to be ready to go.  Fortunately, we’ve been anticipating this move for quite a while.

The biggest challenge, in the short term, is going to be space.  Because we’re moving into a temporary place, until our house sells, we’re going from 6,100 square feet to about 1,400.  We’re taking about 15% of our “stuff”, so it’s a game right now to try to pick what stays and what goes.  This couch, that chair – not that table – and so on.  It’s maddening – but in the end, I hope it’s cathartic, and I hope that we end up not needing more than we brought.  In fact, when it comes time to empty the Atlanta house, I’d love to be able to not move 50% of the rest of the 85%.

Should be an interesting experiment in family dynamics.  Stay tuned.





Good discussions

11 06 2008

This morning, I had a set of meetings with the Managing Director on whose team I work.  Following those meetings, we went to a nice restaurant and had lunch.  I had a set of topics, he had a set of topics, and we got down to ticking through the agenda.  Somewhere between finishing our trout and a cup of coffee, and interesting thing happened.  We both realized that we were having one of the best conversations we’ve had since we started working together.  We were on track and synchronous on most, if not all, of the items on our respective agendas, we had general agreement on the strategy for the account, and we were saying the same things about the progress my team has been making. 

I know that might not sound like a huge accomplishment, but we haven’t been working directly together for very long, and we’re playing on a rather huge field – so mutual agreement is a wonderful thing.  Further, my “aha” moment came when I acknowledged the mutual respect we have for one another, and what that means for our ability to work independently, secure in the knowledge that we’re pursuing complimentary goals that support one another’s objectives.

The best part of the conversation came when we both stopped working from our agenda, and just talked.  The outline was good, to frame the conversation, but when we both “just talked”, we got the most out of the conversation.  Often, in dealing with customers, colleagues, and employees, find myself talking to a purpose, rather than just talking.  I appreciate so much those times when I can just talk.  I think I’ll try to recognize and appreciate those times, when they’re happening.

Today was a good day.





Retirement

8 06 2008

My father retired last week.  He’s 68, and he’s never really not worked.  He left Oracle, after being with them for about 20 years.  Before that, he was a mechanical engineer with a 25 year career.  He made the shift when I was in grad school.  I’m looking forward to more time with him, and having long talks well into the night – the kind that the reality of a 9-to-5 job and a trip back to Detroit prevent.





Piano Recitals

8 06 2008

Yesterday was the final piano recital for our kids in Georgia.  They’ve had a good run, with a good instructor.  We went through a couple of bad instructors to get to Dustin – it’ll be hard to find a new one with as much “connection” to the kids (he was really broken up that we were moving). 

Piano has been such a great thing for the kids.  It’s so wonderful to see their progress.  When we were at the recital, I watched about a 7 year-old kid climb on to the stool and play his “Yankee Doodle” for mom, dad, and the grandparents.  It reminded me so much of Kendall and his first recital – and now he’s the older kid, playing at the end of the recital, providing that “goal” for all of the little kids…   They’re both doing so well at it – we have folks at every recital come up to the kids and congratulate them on their talent, and on their presence.  Both of them exude this confident, self-assured attitude while sitting at the bench.  In confidence, Kendall told me he was nervous – but I assured him that he was the only one who could tell he wasn’t thoroughly overjoyed to be in front of all those people…  He felt better.  I could also see that Kiana was taking so much from the overall situation – she knows nothing different from “just doing it” – I hope that balances, even slightly, all of the coming teenage angst and awkwardness of a girl’s early teen years.

So good to watch them.  I hope that music remains a part of their lives.





Quick Trip to Texas

4 06 2008

We’re headed out to the San Antonio/Austin area for a couple of days, to finalize a rental house.  Our house in Atlanta hasn’t yet sold, and we need to be in Texas, so we’re going to rent.  We have a few choices – a two-building cabin setup, on the river; a three-bedroom house on the fringe of a horse farm; a big house sort of on the two-lane highway across from the high school; a two-bedroom house with a detached loft apartment.  None of these places are very big, and none are what we ultimately want – we just need a place to be, and we need to get going.  We’ve got pictures of some of these places, but we’re not comfortable making this choice from the Internet – so we’re headed out to look at the places, have dinner with the inlaws, write a lease, and get an address.  

I’ll probably take my PC, the blackberry, and a personal cell phone.  Wonder how long it’ll be before I can get away with a two-day trip without the PC?  Email – check.  Reading attachments – check.  Getting to a number of IBM websites – check.  Creating/Editing quick Powerpoint charts and Excel spreadsheets seem to be my downfall.  Even if I had something like the Tilt or Centro, I’m not sure I could really get what I need done.  Seems a shame.  Wonder if the iPhone SDK will address my issue?





New Cell Phone Numbers

2 06 2008

So we all got new cell phone numbers, because we’re moving.  I don’t know how it was for you (if you’ve ever had to change), and I can only speak for AT&T Mobility – but, “What a pain.”  They couldn’t just switch my numbers – they had to create a whole new account.  They couldn’t just copy my old account information over – they had to hand-enter all of my information into the system again.  They couldn’t transfer over the services I had from my old account – they had to sign me up for all new services.  They couldn’t get any information about my devices over the network – I had to give them things like IMEI numbers, etc.  All of this over the phone (had to be between 7am and 7pm CT on a weekday) – I was on for two hours.

But I got them changed.  It’s a little cathartic – feels like starting over, in a way.  I get to choose who gets the new number to my personal cell (everyone else gets the work number) – so now I know that when the personal cell phone rings, it’s someone I want to talk to – at least for a little bit…

The new iPhone releases in a week – guess I’ll get another chance to interact with the customer care team, very soon…





Kids and Cell Phones

31 05 2008

Now both kids have a cell phone.  Kendall has had one for about a year, and I have to say it’s come in quite handy.  He’s done a great job of managing the use of his phone, and controlling the urge to use the phone inappropriately (whether time of day or types of downloads).  We got Kiana a cell phone this week, and we gave it to her last night, as a part of the end-of-school-year celebration. 

We got her a cell phone for a couple of reasons.  Primarily, when we move to Wimberley at the end of the month, we’re going to cut the cord – we’re not getting a land line.  So – we’re reasoning (rationalizing?) that all four of us need a cell phone, to remain accessible.   Secondarily, we want her to feel like part of this digital family.  We noticed that spend a lot of time engaged in digital pursuits, and although Kiana has an iPod for communication, and a Nintendo DS for gaming, she isn’t able to take part in the messaging and phoning that we all do amongst each other.

We “solved” that with a new Blackberry Pearl.  It’ just like Mom’s phone, it has a keyboard for all of the texting she’ll do, it’s small enough for a little purse or pocket, it’s a candybar so there are no hinges or sliders to break, and we’ve found the Blackberry to be a little workhorse and not prone to easy breakage if dropped.  Kiana absolutely loves it.  She’s still figuring out the functionality, and because both Mom and Dad are BB users, she’s got lots of questions and is intent on getting the right answers.  

We know this isn’t something we would have done this summer, had we not been moving.  We’re a little early on the whole kids and cell phones thing, with our 11 year-old.  That said – we think we’ve covered all of the appropriate parenting bases – but I’m sure there are some yet uncovered.  We had the conversation about appropriate usage, we subscribe to the unlimited family plan with texting, we’ve put on the parental controls feature, and we’re monitoring the usage.  I’ll be watching closely – hope this goes well… 

Our kids didn’t get them *this* early…





Last Day of School

30 05 2008

Do you remember your last day of school, at any grade level, from K – 12?  I sort of remember my 8th grade and something like 10th, but I can’t say that I remember either of them very well.  Kiana and Kendall got out of school today.  Kiana’s last day of 5th grade, and Kendall’s last day of 8th. 

Kendall had a number of exit exams, and seems to have done well enough to get out of 8th grade, and into whatever level of classes are offered at Wimberley High School.  He’s done well, and we’re proud of the education he’s had so far, but also how much he puts into it.  He studies hard, completes his work without prodding, participates in class, gets good marks, and is widely respected by his teachers and peers.  Kiana, without the pressures of full middle school exit exams, has been able to get through the week of parties and field days with grace.  Her fifth grade year has been excellent, outside of our disappointment in one of her instructors.  She’s found her voice in her writing (including poetry and songwriting), and her math and science enthusiasm and marks are outstanding.  She puts in so much effort – more than is expected - and her teachers appreciate not only her academics, but also her leadership in the classroom.

Both of their music has come so far this year.  Thanks to Dr. Woodard’s (Kendall’s choral instructor) interest in his singing, Kendall tried out for the Georgia All-State Choir.  He made the cut, went to All-State,  and had a fantastic experience.  Parallel to, and (I believe) enabled/encouraged by that success, Kendall has started to sing on his own – both with the four-piece rock band he put together, and solo with a guitar.  His band performed a couple of times for their peers at school, and he actually performed solo three separate times:  at the 8th grade dance, at a friend’s end-of-year party, and at a charity fundraiser, where he helped raise some money for a local teen’s bone marrow transplant.  Quite a year, by any musical standards.  Kiana, too, has had a very solid year of musical progress.  She’s gaining fast on Kendall, in the piano books – threatening to catch him in the next year.  She moved from the electric to the acoustic guitar, in an effort to be more a a singer/songwriter/player than the burgeoning electric front-person.  Her chord progressions, and her overall ‘feel’ for the music are better than ever – I’m so glad she’ll have an outlet for what I’m sure will be some real teenage girl angst in her coming years.

I hope today’s last day of school is memorable for these kids.  I plan to remind them of their progress.  It doesn’t seem like that long ago we had a couple of kids.  Now we have some rather independent young people, a teen and a tween.  I couldn’t be prouder of both of them (as if you needed me to point that out, after this glowing post), and I’m glad to be a part of their lives.  It’s their last day of school in Atlanta – and just the start of great things where we’re going.





Winding it down in Atlanta

28 05 2008

This week is about starting the process of winding down the Atlanta presence.

Some logistical things – like changing cell phone numbers to the Austin area, changing the work location in all of the corporate systems, talking to the movers, registering the kids for school, and working out the temporary lease on a place in Wimberley.

Some exciting things – working out whether we can get a temporary/quirky little place on the river, letting the family know when we’ll be there, setting up camps and mini-vacations for the summer, and buying the end-of-school-year gifts for the kids (new phone, new game platform).

Some bittersweet things – attending a couple of going away parties that folks are having for us, helping the kids get everywhere in the next few weeks to get their yearbooks signed and friends touched, getting rid of smaller kids’ beds and buying new ones for the new place, taking down all the bird feeders and art around the place.

Lots to do – not nearly enough time between now and June 30 – but we’re ticking down to the move, and we’ll go, ready or not…